Why do we choose one brand over another? Brand loyalty is 
not a mental act, but an emotional one, and brand loyal customers have 
an emotional relationship with the brands they're faithful to. And like 
Woody Allen explained in Annie Hall, "A relationship, I think, is like a
 shark. It has to constantly move forward or it dies."
The challenge for many brands is how to spark that 
emotional relationship and then keep it going. How does a brand get that
 first date and turn it into a long, happy marriage? Here are eight 
steps to creating a successful brand-consumer relationship online.
Determine your type. In today's social 
media age, almost everyone has a digital profile. And as a business 
trying to connect with a certain type of customer, you need to create a 
comprehensive profile of exactly who that person is. You need to be as 
detailed as possible and know your type inside and out -- what they eat 
for breakfast, the kind of books they read, whether they prefer 
kickboxing or yoga and how they spend their discretionary income. The 
more detailed your profile, the greater the number of candidates your 
product or message could resonate with.   
Tell everyone you're looking. If you were 
looking for a golf buddy, a gym partner or even a mate, part of your 
strategy would be to tell everyone you know that you were looking. It's 
no different when it comes to business. You want to align yourself with 
people and companies that can get you in front of your type, that ideal 
consumer you created a profile of. These people and companies are 
influencers who have a direct connection to your type and already have 
their attention and trust.
Find a way to work with and partner with these established 
influencers. Make them your "passionate champions" -- people and 
businesses who feel like they have a vested interest in your success. Do
 this by figuring out how to create a win-win with these influencers.
Look the part. Know what your type is 
attracted to and make sure you look like what they want. To do this you 
have to know what kind of social environments your type prefers (e.g. 
Facebook or Twitter) and what kind of ways they consume their media 
(e.g. tablet, mobile or desktop). Your online environment has to 
generate interest and excitement and speak their language.
Look into their eyes. Everyone wants to 
feel like they're one of a kind. Your customer wants to know that you 
get them, that you understand exactly where they're coming from and what
 they're thinking. Create a two-way conversation that allows you to get a
 more in-depth understanding of where they are and where they want to 
be. Give them a voice and let them know you're listening.
Deliver value. Make sure your brand speaks
 to your type about what matters to them. Your customer wants to see how
 you can enhance their life, because if you can't, there's no reason for
 them to be a repeat customer. Show them that your product or service 
has value, and they will be more likely to move forward.
Ask for commitment. If the brand-consumer 
relationship was one between two individuals, this would be where you 
would "put a ring on it!" But before you can "close" or finalize the 
relationship, you have to know what you want your customer to do. It 
could be to share your message, give you their contact information or 
make a purchase. Whatever it takes, don't let them walk away without 
telling them exactly what you need them to do, and then get confirmation
 that they've done it.
Keep the spark alive. Ask anyone in a 
successful relationship and they'll tell you that the courtship can 
never end. Re-imagine your key message regularly and create targeted 
campaigns that will attract new customers as well as re-engage your 
"passionate champions." Re-energize your message on a regular basis and 
continue to drive home the importance and relevance of your brand.
Gauge your performance. The only way to 
know if a relationship is working is to assess or evaluate results. 
Likewise, in business, you need to measure anything that relates to 
achieving your goals -- traffic, engagement, conversions, etc. Metrics 
help you take stock of how you're doing and help you get to where you 
want to be.

